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Showing posts with label Shopaholic. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Shopaholic. Show all posts
A few weeks ago I shared the reasons why I decided to do a no-buy project. With the Christmas sale season coming up, temptations will abound, so this is a good time for me to review and share my personal no-buy rules here, for those of you who may be wondering what that looks like.
First of all, I think some may term what I'm doing as more of a "low-buy" than a "no-buy". I'm not refraining from purchasing anything at all for the next three(ish) months, but I am refraining from buying certain categories of things that are a particular problem for me. I think the great part about doing a project like this is that you can adjust the rules to whatever is going to be the most impactful and practical for yourself. So these rules won't fit for anyone else, but they do apply to what I want to work on with my own buying habits. I'm sharing them here as a way to give you some ideas of the way a no-buy or low-buy could look, in case you find yourself wanting to try something like this. Sharing also gives me a little accountability, and a place to review my own rules!
Without further ado, here they are:
Things I Can Buy:
1. I can buy things for my kids. I will be keeping this rule as long as I can stay reasonable about it - if my shopping habits in this area become a problem I may adjust later.
2. I can replace makeup, skincare, or household products that run out or that break. The key to this rule, is that I have to be completely out of that item! I find myself often buying new products before I'm completely finished with the old ones, and I end up wasting product, so I'd like to completely run out of something, to the point that I can throw it away, before I purchase a new one.
3. I can buy supplies for creative projects if I will realistically use those items within the next month. I would like to shift some of the satisfaction that I sometimes find in shopping into more productive avenues, so I will allow myself to buy craft supplies, yarn, embroidery thread, etc. However, I don't want to end up with a whole cabinet of craft supplies that I have never used, which is why I added the qualification that I must use those things within a month! This will give me a healthy pressure to actually get started on my projects too, instead of feeling overwhelmed and procrastinating.
4. I can buy gifts for others. This was obviously a concession that had to be made.
5. Photo organizing and framing things are okay. One project I would love to finish is getting photo albums updated and some of our pictures/art framed, so this is one area that I will allow myself to still spend money.
6. I may buy home organization things, if I've decluttered the area in question first. I would like to work on cleaning out some neglected corners of our house, and get more organized during this period when I am hoping to not add as many new things to our home. If I find that I need some organizing items in that process, I can buy those.
7. If I receive any cash for holidays or birthdays, I may use that money how I wish. This is a like a little pressure-release valve that I think will help me to be successful, but the fact that I can only buy certain things with gift money will help me be thoughtful about what I purchase.
Things I Cannot Buy:
1. No clothes. This is the biggest area I am trying to restrict over the next year, and I explained that a little more in my last post.
2. No candles. Excuse the cliche here, but I definitely have had a "scarcity mindset" in the past when it comes to candles. I find a scent I like, and I feel like I need to stock up before it's discontinued! In the process, I have amassed a pretty good candle collection, and I absolutely don't need to buy any more candles until I've used up my stash (and that could take me quite a while, since I actually don't burn candles as often as I always think I do).
3. No makeup or nail polish (except replacing empties). I want to completely use up an item before I buy a new one, and I'm not buying extra "fun" makeup or nail items at all, just replacing basics (like mascara or topcoat).
4. No extra skincare. By extra skincare, I mean anything that I am not currently out of. I want to completely use all items I've already purchased, and all the free samples I've amassed over the years, before I purchase a replacement.
5. No perfume or lotions. I don't know how exactly, but I always seem to have a cabinet full of Bath And Body Works lotions and body sprays, and I need to use what I have (and get rid of the ones I don't use anyway)!
6. No curriculum (unless I evaluate and discuss with my husband first). This is a big one for me, because I can always justify a new school-related purchase, and there probably will be times when I think we need to get something over the next few months. My brake on these items is going to be that I need to discuss the purchase with my husband first and see if he thinks it's necessary or a good idea - only if he gives the green light, will I be allowed to purchase curriculum items.
7. No decorative home goods. This is another area that I need to reset. I don't want to buy any decorative items like pillows, home decor, throw blankets, etc. However, I will allow purchases of practical items that we are out of or actually need...for example, I can buy new nice-scented cleaners, if we've used all our other cleaners first, or I can replace things like towels or sleeping pillows if they've worn out, etc. But I will be trying to be strict with myself on those things too.
Special Rules:
1. At the end of each month, if I have any leftover money, I will save half of it, and I am allowed to use the other half to purchase books. This will give me a little leeway on books, with some pretty set limits.
2. Truly free things are okay. I occasionally get a no-purchase-necessary coupon for certain items, and if I really don't have to spend anything to get the freebie, I can do that.
3. I will check in at the end of every three moths, evaluate how I did, and see if I need to tweak any of my rules to be more or less strict. With the short time I've been doing this challenge, I can already see that if I need to make any adjustments, it will probably be needing to make my rules more strict. I think the next month or two is going to be particularly difficult leading into the holidays since I may be able to justify certain purchases as gifts, etc. This has already been a challenge, so I may be tightening these rules as I go to make sure I stay consistent and can be successful at this project! But if one area really does turn out to be somewhat impractical for whatever reason, the three-month evaluations will allow me to find a rule that works better.
Overall, I'm hoping to do some form of a no-buy for the next year, while allowing adjustments along the way - we will see how it goes!
I hope seeing my rules stirs some ideas for yourself if you are considering a no-buy, and I hope you'll root for me as I try to stick to these rules over the coming months!
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