Currently | June 2019



Picking...which summer events to add to our summer bucket list.  A few weeks ago Derek and I sat down and charted out our weekends to make sure we get to everything we want to do this summer.  I want to do the same thing for my weekdays with the kids.  There are so many fun events at the library, at different parks, at movie theaters, and I want to have a plan worked out for each week!  Last week was full with VBS, and now the homeschool conference that I like to attend is this week.  So starting next week, the carefree summer schedule begins.  We did squeeze in a summer $1 movie day with friends yesterday though!



Reading...Hillbilly Elegy by J. D. Vance, which was a pick from my recent library book haul.  A few of you told me it was good when you saw it in my post on Instagram, so I picked it up first!  I am very interested in the story so far, especially being from the west.  It's been interesting to read about the dynamics and culture from a place in the US that I haven't had much contact with.

Eating...this cucumber, tomato, and avocado salad, with a bit of ranch dressing.  It makes me feel like summer.  I made this a couple years ago when I was pregnant with Georgie too.



Watching...An American Murder Mystery on Hulu, specifically the Casey Anthony series.  I go through spurts of true crime kicks, and I especially enjoy courtroom dramas.  I like to imagine I'm on the jury, since every single time I've ever gotten real-life jury duty, the trial is cancelled before I get a chance to even go to the courthouse. I just really want to be picked for a jury once in my life.  With so many people who hate jury duty, why does someone like me who wants to perform my civic duty never get a chance, I ask you?  It's a shame.  Anyway, sometimes I like to watch true crime shows and decide whether I'd say innocent or guilty if I was on the jury.  (For the record, I do think Casey Anthony was guilty of something.  But there wasn't enough evidence to be able to say exactly what went down.  I think her dad has it right.)

Wearing...these tanks from JcPenney.  They are just the perfect tank to me - relaxed without being sloppy, and they go with everything.  I have a few colors, and I wear them with shorts or distressed cropped jeans for park days, tied to the side or tucked with a skirt for a dressier look, or with "athleisure" leggings and a jean jacket for grocery shopping.  I buy a few every year, because I wear them so much they usually need replacing each summer!

Going...to the Great Sand Dunes!  We took a little weekend trip to the Great Sand Dunes National Park, and we all had so much fun.  It is definitely one of the more fun national parks for kids, in my opinion.  In May and June the snow melts off the mountains and the water flows down in front of the dunes, so it's like a beach in the middle of the country.  The kids had so much fun splashing in the water and building sand castles.  This was also the first time I've been there where the sand didn't burn my feet, so climbing up the dunes was actually fun instead of sweltering.  Just a great time all around.













Derek and I are looking forward to a few more short trips this summer.  We got a pretty decent tax return (which is the only way we pay for vacations).  We were thinking about splurging on a big trip this year, but I think we've decided to opt for a more moderately-priced trip and a few other smaller weekend trips.  You know, spread the fun out a little bit.

Wishing...that it would warm up just an incy bit more.  It's been a fairly cool start to the summer here - I don't think we've broken 80 degrees in the mountains yet.  I'd just like to get a couple 80 degree days so we can break out the kiddie pool and water-related toys.  Right now it's still just a little too cool for that.  I know all of you who are in sweltering parts of the country are probably wishing it was cooler, so don't think I don't appreciate that it's not too hot either!

Celebrating...my birthday this week!  I'll be spending most of it at the homeschool conference, and Derek and the kids are going to join me there in the evening for a science family event.  Then we'll do a little more celebrating together on Saturday (I don't know what we'll do, Derek has something planned.)

What have you been up to lately?  Any summer plans or good books?


Homeschooling And Bad Attitudes (Homeschool Q&A)



Remember how a few months ago I was working on homeschool q&a posts?  Well, I dropped the ball, and the school year is over now, but I still want to go through and answer the questions I got on Instagram a few months back!  This was a really good one about handling bad attitudes.


How do you handle the frustrating days when they lack focus or don't want to work?

This year in particular I've had to deal with more attitudes about school than I've had to up to this point, and we have definitely experienced days where things just aren't clicking and nobody seems to be focused.  My kids are still fairly young, so I'm sure that I'll be learning alot more about how to handle this in the future (especially when my kids reach the dreaded middle school years).  But these are a few things that have helped me at this stage.

Take a break.  My kids sometimes lose focus because I am asking them to do too much schoolwork all in a row.  Young kids especially need time to let their brain rest in between lessons, so if I know I am trying to cram too much in, I'll give them time to play and rest before we come back to whatever we were doing.

Skip a subject.  Sometimes kids just have an unfocused, off day (kind of like we do, right?).  Maybe they didn't get enough sleep, or have alot on their minds.  Often my kids are even distracted by good things, like a project they want to work on outside.  On those days, I use my discretion and sometimes we call it a day early or do a review day instead of trying to struggle through learning a new concept.  We can always catch back up later, when everything is clicking and flowing smoothly (there are those days too!).

Give a little encouragement.  My kids will occasionally have a bad attitude because they think something is "too hard".  Sometimes a little encouragement is in order.  I point out the things they are doing well, and remind them that the more we do this type of work, the easier it will get.  Then I try to keep the lesson that day simple and short, to remind them it's not so difficult after all.



Realize that sometimes it's a discipline issue.  Many times my kids are not focusing for an innocent reason, but sometimes they are actually having a sinful attitude about their schoolwork.  To me, homeschooling is not just about doing school, it's about training my children.  Training them to be obedient when I tell them to do something is part of it, and if the attitude is an obedience issue, then I might have to do some discipline.

If I do have to discipline them for a poor attitude, I also try to take some time to explain the why of schoolwork.  As Christians, we are learning these things so we can glorify God with our minds, learn more about Him and His world, and serve Him better.  (This can be said of any subject, not just Bible studies, and if you haven't thought of things that way before, I'd encourage you to put some thought into how different subject areas glorify God so you can encourage your kids!)  They also need to obey when it comes to their schoolwork, not because it will be easier for me, but because they need to honor their father and mother (Eph. 6:1-3) and do everything to the glory of God (Col. 3:23).  It might seem like alot to explain to a 7 year old, but it's an important concept, and through consistency and repetition I'm hoping they will eventually accept these things as their own.

Finally, I might need to check my attitude.  I'm not going to lie, sometimes it's ME that's having the bad attitude about schoolwork!  I rush sometimes.  I get frustrated when a concept is harder to teach than I thought it would be.  I am distracted and have other things on my mind than the task at hand.  I don't always set a good example, and sometimes their bad attitude might be sprouting from my poor attitude!  This is something I'm trying to keep in mind and improve in myself.

That's all I've got!



Moms, how do you handle it when your child gives you a hard time about schoolwork/homework?


Stuff I Like | May 2019



May was rather a dry month - in terms of finding things I liked, not in terms of moisture.  If we are referring to actual precipitation, it snowed here in May, a couple times!  Maybe the snow put a damper on my enthusiasm for finding stuff I like, because this month's post is a bit sparse on actual recommendations and a bit heavy on chattiness.  I'll do better in June.

The Trees

I would be remiss if I didn't mention that our trees finally flowered in May!  For about two weeks.  Before the snow made all the flowers turn black.  But I was happy that we got to enjoy them for a little while at least, and I did get some flowery pictures, so all is not lost!  All our trees are just late this year.




By Dawn's Early Light, Adventures In Odyssey

One of my favorite moments from this school year was when we learned about the war of 1812 this month.  While I love Beautiful Feet Books for history, this particular book was a little dry, and was not holding my kids' attention, so I put the book down and told them in my own words the story of how The Star Spangled Banner was written.  They were fascinated.  I've always loved that story from American history, and it was such a joy to me to pass on that inspiration I've always found in our national anthem and it's history.  The look on my kids' faces was priceless to me.

Anyway, I will never forget the Adventures In Odyssey episode on The Star Spangled Banner, and I played it for my kids after we finished our lesson.  They spent the rest of the evening drawing pictures to illustrate, and Gwen got especially detailed with hers.

I didn't realize it before, but there are a lot of free Adventures In Odyssey episodes online!  But absolutely listen to By Dawn's Early Light with your kids, it's one of my favorites.

Lancome Skincare

After limping along on nearly-empty skincare bottles for months, Derek bought me my favorite Lancome moisturizer for Mother's Day!  I also squeezed the Creme Confort Cleanser and Tonique Radiance Toner back into my budget.  I've tried quite a few skincare lines in the past few years, and Lancome is still my favorite - I haven't found another line that gives my skin a "glowy" look even when I'm not pregnant.  My skin is happy going into summer!

This Potpurri Recipe

Who does potpourri these days?  Well, apparently I do.  I ran across this recipe on Pinterest and realized that I had every ingredient already in my kitchen, so I gave it a try.  Guys, it scented my whole house.  And it wasn't a stale, musty potpourri smell, it was fresh and clean and just as spring-like as promised.  I definitely recommend giving the ol' potpourri a try!

Sonic Ice

Okay, if I'm honest, I've liked Sonic ice every month this year.  In April, when I accidentally announced on Instagram that I was pregnant when I wasn't pregnant (that happens to everyone, right?), I was actually just trying to muse about why I am craving that soft, crunchy Sonic ice so much these days.

My theory is that my body hasn't caught up since I was pregnant last, and I'm still somewhat iron deficient - hence the ice obsession, because I nearly always crave it when I'm a little low in iron (which has usually been when I was pregnant in the past, hence the Instagram misunderstanding). Surely my iron stores will get back to normal eventually, right?  I'm not sure whether to indulge the ice cravings, or find an iron supplement and see if that changes anything.



The End Of The School Year

We finished up our homeschool year about a week ago!  I'll try to do a homeschool year in review post soon, but honestly, I've been loving not thinking about school at all.

I read so many fiction books last week.  So many, including three from my summer hold list.  I always thought it took me so long to read books, but look at me go when I have a week off from other obligations!  It's been a reading dream, I tell you.  I finally unpacked the last box from our move.  I organized the school cabinet and ironed out my plans for summer fun with the kids.  I vacuumed the floors and washed the sheets.  I accomplished so much. It's just been lovely.

Don't get me wrong, I love homeschooling and wouldn't have it any other way.  I'm looking forward to the homeschool conference next week, and I've got a "homeschool mom reading list" for the summer (another post possibly coming soon).  But I just don't know that I could do the year-round thing and not take a summer break.  Breaks give me life.


I hope you are having a beautiful start to your summer break!  (Also, tell me your favorite skincare products and give me all your suspected-iron-deficiency advice, please!)


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