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(I’m back to writing again after a hectic month! Here’s what’s been happening.)
On The Page {Anything I’ve Read}
{Cookbooks}. My sweet husband is also a wonderful cook and frequently takes over cooking dinner to give me a break, but I decided recently that I wanted to take dinner off his plate all together. So I’ve been reading various cookbooks and trying to figure out how to be more organized about dinner. Meal planning has never been my strong suit, and if anyone has advice or resources to help me, please chime in. I would like to improve my cooking skills, which could be better, and organizational skills when it comes to meal prep is my biggest challenge right now.
{Anna Karenina}. One of my big reading goals for the year is to finish Anna Karenina. I have been very consistent about reading it nightly, and it is an easier read than I thought it would be. I was never interested in reading it, but recently saw it on this list of “Novels To Help You Be A Better Mom” - after reading some of it, I can see how that could be true by providing a contrast, since I can already see Anna is headed down a bad path.
In My Armchair {Projects I'm Working On}
{Making homemade cleaners}. A few years ago I went on an essential oil kick, and I gathered quite a collection of oils. In fact, I gathered too many just because I was curious about different scents, and now I am left trying to make sure I actually use all those oils. I’ve occasionally tried different DIY cleaner recipes with my oils, but most clean recipes use vinegar, and I don’t enjoy my house smelling like that. I recently came across this recipe that uses orange peels, and I have some cleaning concentrate brewing in my pantry right now. That still doesn’t help my essential oil issues though, so I found this recipe that uses Castile soap, and I’m going to give it a try as well.
In The Kitchen {Things We Made}
{Old standbys}. We’ve been in survival mode after a stressful couple months around here, so the old standbys are keeping us afloat. We’ve enjoyed comfort foods like homemade macaroni and cheese, my usual bread baking, and soups.
{Some new favorites}. I while back I downloaded and printed some recipes that were supposed to be good for kids to do on their own. I pinned them to my fridge and forgot about it, but a few weeks ago my oldest daughter found one for granola bars, and asked if she could make it. She’s made it a couple times now, and her granola bars are so chewy and satisfying! I also have been working out of a high-protein recipe book (this one), which prompted me to try a real balsamic glaze for chicken recently - it was so good, I don’t know why I’ve never used glazes before.
On My Person {Things I've Worn}
{Stuck in winter}. This is the time of year where I start to get the itch to start putting together outfits with a more springtime vibe. Unfortunately, the weather is not cooperating with my vibes, so my outfits are still stuck in winter.
(Every coat and jacket in these pictures, except one, brought to you courtesy of my favorite thrift store.)
In The Accounts Book {Money We Have Saved}
{Grocery shopping pickup}. I might have mentioned this already, but one way I try to save money each month is by doing my grocery shopping online. I can really see what I’m spending when I add each item to my cart and see the prices adding up, and I can make adjustments to make sure my total is what I want it to be. I can also check my pantry to make sure I actually need something before I buy it, which I can’t do in the store. When I go browsing in the store I sometimes end up adding things to my cart that I did not come in for, and shopping from my couch helps cut down on those impulse purchases because I have time to think everything through.
Out My Window {Beauty I Noticed}
{Flowers sprouting, maybe?}. Even though it is not truly spring in the mountains until May, this is the time of year when I go about looking for any little clues that spring is coming. I poked around in my flower pots from last year and spotted some tiny little sprouts of greenery…it snowed the next day, so who know if it will come to anything, but one can hope!
Out And About {Places We Went}
{Snowmobiling with my parents}. In their almost-retirement, my parents have reignited a hobby from their youth - snowmobiling! They go most weekends in the winter, and every year they take our family on a Saturday snowmobiling trip. We’ve been doing this for several years now, but this is the first year I felt like it took no time at all for me to get comfortable driving. My oldest was also able to ride on his own since he’s 14 now (the family age requirement). We had a blast - it’s always lovely spending time with family, and this is a special tradition that we are grateful for.
{Several Valentine’s Day parties}. Some years have been pretty slow around Valentine’s Day, but this year we had three different Valentine’s events to go to - two with homeschool groups, and a family party put on by my mom. The kids loved all of it! We love Valentine’s Day around our house, as an opportunity to show family and friends that we appreciate them.
On My Mind {Thoughts I Want To Share}
{Some homeschool thoughts}. After an interesting conversation recently, I have been reflecting on how we as homeschool moms tend to have an especially difficult struggle whether our kids are succeeding or struggling in any given academic area. Because we have taken on our kids’ education ourselves, we think “it’s all up to me” - if our kids are doing particularly well, the temptation is to attribute their success to our superior philosophy or efforts, and if they are struggling we bite our fingernails and think we must be doing something wrong. There’s pride on one side and some level of despair on the other. But in the end, it’s really all pride on both sides of the ditch.
The best thing is to walk in the middle, with a humble heart, recognizing that our kids’ strengths and weaknesses are a unique mix given to each of them by God…and our job is not to pat ourselves on the back or wring our hands over either strengths or weaknesses. We shouldn’t compare to what other kids/families are doing, or some vague idea of what “level” they are exceeding or failing to meet, but to recognize growth - comparing our kids only to themselves and how they’ve grown, and asking God for wisdom on how we can help them grow further. This has been a hard-fought lesson for me since my kids were little, and something I’m learning again as I think ahead to high school next year!
In My Heart {Things I'm Treasuring}
{1} Family and friends that I know will pray for me when I ask.
{2} Fresh blueberries, waiting in the fridge for me to make jam.
{3} Chocolate coconut macaroons.
{4} Going outside and hearing the birds greeting the morning once again.
{5} Kids that are so understanding and flexible when plans change.
{6} The urge to start researching curriculum for next year - I know they say not to indulge it before finishing the current homeschool year, but planning is so fun!
{7} Impromptu coffee dates with my husband.
{8} A thrift store that always has treasures hiding on the racks if I look hard enough.
{9} Snow and sunshine on rotation.
{10} Mud on our boots, the first sign of spring.
I’m back with another glimpse around my home and life this month. January is actually one of my favorite months - there’s always a sense of freshness about it, even while most things stay the same.
On The Page {Anything I Read}
{A novel recommended by a friend}. A friend of mine from church recommended The Historian by Elizabeth Kostova to me, because we had been talking about Dracula by Bram Stoker. The Historian is a chunky book (over 700 pages), but I am very much enjoying it. There is some pretty graphic descriptions of violence committed by Dracula, but otherwise it has been clean so far (just creepy). The book is something of an epistolary novel, and I always find it fascinating how authors can tell a story through a letter format. It makes me want to write more letters.
{Interesting Substack article}. I read this post about a quiet, meaningful life, and what we’ve been told it is and how to get it, and how maybe we’re looking for shortcuts where we shouldn’t. This is especially resonated with me as I’ve been cleaning out drawers and taking things to donate lately. The things that stay, that I would never dream of giving away, are a hodgepodge that I’ve collected over years, mostly items that have been handmade for me, or given to me by someone I love. In the end, having a beautiful home isn’t about purchasing just the right things to make my house look like a magazine, or clearing enough away to make it look Pinterest-worthy - a home is really beautiful to me because of the meaning given to those items by the people we love. It’s not exactly the point that was being made in this essay, but these are the thoughts this piece prompted in my head.
In My Armchair {Projects I'm Working On}
{Editing photos for our co-op yearbook}. I wish I could write something like "crocheting hats for everyone in my family" or "finishing beautifully artistic embroidery hangings", but once again my hobbies tend to revolve around my computer. But the truth is, I haven't had the time and energy this month to tackle handmade projects since I'm still very much a novice at crocheting and embroidery. When we rejoined our co-op this year, I was asked to take class pictures for the co-op yearbook, and I've put off finalizing the images long enough. I'm aiming to get them edited and uploaded for sharing before the end of the month.
In The Kitchen {Things We Made}
{Banana Bread & Busy Day Cake}. Between sickness and busyness, not much baking has happened this month, but I remedied that situation with a busy-day cake and three loaves of banana bread this afternoon. I had a little helper that insisted on mashing the bananas, which is just fine with me since that is my least favorite part of making banana bread!
{Fresh-Milled Bread}. I'm attempting to get back into a bread-making habit now that we've started homeschool again, and this last loaf my oldest daughter made on her own. We mainly make bread in my amazing bread maker - it takes about 15 minutes to put it together, and by the afternoon we have a beautiful, warm loaf to enjoy with a bit of butter and jam. I would like to dabble in more hand-kneaded breads, if I ever have time, but for now, the bread machine is a blessing.
{Chicken Noodle Soup}. The coldest weather of our winter so far has been in the last couple of weeks - we had a whopping high of 9 degrees Fahrenheit one day this last week. Those kind of days call for chicken noodle soup. I've never had a recipe for chicken noodle soup, I just wing it - cook some chicken, throw it in a pot with some chicken broth and carrots (a bag of frozen carrots for ease), chop up some onions for flavor, get a little creative with some spices, and then the secret ingredient - Grandma's egg noodles. No other noodle will do.
On My Person {Things I've Worn}
{Lovely Coats}. It has been quite chilly and snowy outside lately, but I like it this way in the winter, and I’ve been especially happy for my coat collection in these winter months. A few years ago I decided I might as well nurture a collection of beautiful winter coats since I spend so much of the year in them, and it’s served me well. Here are a few winter outfits lately, some with coats, some without.
In The Accounts Book {Money We Have Saved}
{Looking through Groupon for Deals}. I'm going to be honest and admit that this hasn't been an amazing month for saving money, so this isn't technically money saved, but money we "spent" in the form of points instead of cash. We chose to spend some of our credit card reward points on rodeo tickets - rodeos are a big deal around here in January, and we haven't taken the kids to one since they were babies. My husband got a deal through Groupon which saved us quite a bit on a fun experience.
Out My Window {Beauty I Noticed}
{Morning skies}. Our back window faces East, so every morning as I'm pouring my cup of coffee, I look out the window and see what colors the sky will be today. Peach and pale azure? Fire orange and deep purple? Rosy pink and lilac and icy blue? It's always a surprise. Sometimes, just as the sun peeks over the distant mountains, it will shine like a spotlight into the living room, splashing the wall like a paintbrush with glowing red.
{Snowy landscapes}. We've been enjoying a good amount of snow this January, and I love it. I read a meme that said, if you choose not to enjoy the snow, you'll have alot less joy, and the same amount of snow, and I couldn't agree with anything more. Here's another Substack post that similarly extols the virtues of snow. Do not complain about snow in my presence, because you'll receive no sympathy from me. I love how it washes everything clean, and makes an ordinary landscape other-worldly.
Out And About {Places We Went}
{Snow Sculptures}. We decided to try something new this year, and we went to an outdoor display of snow sculptures. We didn’t get to watch the actual sculpting, but we did see a huge block of hard-packed snow, the “before”. It’s amazing what people can do with such an unstable and temporary medium! I don’t understand why you would want to waste all that lovely snow on sculpting something weird, as a few artists did, but most of the sculptures were pretty neat. We enjoyed the sculptures, walked around a cute little mountain town, and enjoyed Mexican food for dinner. It was a worthwhile (and free!) outing.
{The Rodeo}. Rodeos and stock shows are a big part of the culture around here in our western state, as I mentioned above, and this month we re-introduced our kids to the rodeo in particular. It was so fun to explain the different events to the kids and watch my little one’s eyes go round. “They have to race around the barrels as fast as they can, and get as close as they can without touching.” “They have to get one rope around the calf’s back feet, and one rope around his head, and then pull the ropes tight.” “They have to ride up next to the steer, jump on it, and wrestle it to the ground.” “They have to stay on that bucking horse (or bull) for 8 seconds without touching it with their free hand or falling off.” You don’t realize how crazy all that sounds until you try to explain it to a 7 year old. It was a grand time.
On My Mind {Thoughts I Want To Share}
{On reading hard books}. I always feel pressure to put something profound here, but I am in a hurry to finish this post before January is indeed over, and I’m pressed for time. So let me just say that if you are afraid to attempt to read an epic poem (as I mentioned I was in this post), don’t be. I couldn’t decide, so I picked up The Iliad and Paradise Lost, and I’m surprised at how much I am enjoying both. If you’ve read any Dickens within the last five years, trust me, you’ll be fine.
In My Heart {Things I'm Treasuring}
{1} Bright eyes and a big smile asking to help with the baking.
{2} Side-by-side sorts of friendships - different than the treasured “bosom friend”, but heart-filling in their own way.
{3} Frosty front porches glittering in the morning sun.
{4} Being worried that you are catching the family cold, but then waking up with your sinuses still clear.
{5} Sitting on the floor, reading a living book to my kids for school, and having a tiny dog climb onto my bent-over back and settle down there for a nap. Yes, she did that.
{6} Spots of sunshine on our wood floor in winter.
{7} A husband who never fails to have a pot of hot coffee ready for me in the morning.
Hope your January has brought fresh and new joys to you - and here’s to February!
For the past ten(ish) Januarys I have take some time to set a reading goal for the year. Many times my goal was a number of books read - most often 52, because 1 book a week seems like a nice round number.
But recently my goals are focused less on the number of books read and more on the quality of books I’m reading. I usually hit 52 books for the year, but I haven’t always been satisfied with the books that make up that number. My goals this year are focused on finding a balance of reading quality books that will stick with me and keeping my reading momentum going, while simultaneously not neglecting to share what I’m learning from my reading.
Sharing goals provides some accountability for me, and personally, I find enjoyment and inspiration in reading about others’ reading goals, and thought you might like to read about mine! So here we go.
2025 Reading Goals
One stiff book, one moderate book, one novel going at a time.
This is an idea I came across in some Charlotte Mason forum once upon a time, and it has stuck with me as something I need to implement. While I want to read books that are challenging and worthwhile, when I have too many challenging books going at once, it is very easy for me to lose my reading momentum. When my brain is tired at night, I need something easy. Having a balance of these three categories of books will help keep my reading high quality without losing steam.
Take more notes and applications to remember what I’ve learned from the books I read.
Especially for the “stiff” and moderately challenging books, I want to make sure the time spent reading them isn’t wasted - I want to remember and apply what I’m reading. I want to develop a habit of note-taking this year to ensure that these worthwhile books stick. I anticipate it will take some time to develop a system, so this will be a year of trial and error.
To read books I own.
I don’t own a ridiculous amount of unread books, but enough that it’s slightly embarrassing when someone peruses my shelves. I have four shelves on the bottom of my bookcases that hold all the unread books that I can’t let go of, because I would really like to read them someday - this is the year I want to make that happen! So for the reading challenges I’m going to discuss below, I’d like to fill out my categories with books I already own whenever possible.
To write a review post for every 3 books read.
This is a change in how I share books I’m reading on Substack and other places on the internet. Instead of monthly or quarterly book posts, I’d like to share a reading review post for every three books I read. To me, three is the minimum number of books to round out book posts, and having less books to talk about will give me more space to explore ideas or give a more thorough review. It also hopefully means more frequent posts on here!
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Challenges I’m Participating In
5x5 Challenge
A few years ago I came across the Schole Sisters 5x5 reading challenge - the idea is to choose five categories, and read five books within each category. You can read more about it here. Here are the categories I’m thinking about, and the books I’m considering in each category. If you have suggestions to fill these in, please let me know!
{Writing}
I have been writing online for over 15 years now, and I’ve gone through several periods where I feel my writing became a bit - sloppy. I think there is alot of room for writing improvement (there always is, isn’t there?), and so this category is about challenging myself to improve my skills. But the category is not just about writing as a craft, but about writing as a blessing to others in my real life, and to that end, I am also wanting to read books about handwriting itself, or writing letters, or any other topic that could fall under the umbrella of writing.
TBD
TBD
Other possibilities: Story Genius, The Glamour Of Grammar, How To Write Short, Improve Your Handwriting, The Art Of The Handwritten Note, The Missing Ink
{Homemaking}
My foremost job is that of a homemaker - creating a restful and loving home environment for my husband and kids is especially important to us as a homeschool and work-at-home family, since we spend so much time here. I want to gain insights on the importance of home, and also gain some practical tips and encouragement for keeping things running smoothly around here.
Mrs. Dunwoody’s Excellent Instructions For Homekeeping by Miriam Lukken
The Lifegiving Home by Sally Clarkson (I’ve tried to read through this book about four times now - perhaps this is the year I succeed, and if I don’t it’s probably time to give up on it.)
TBD
TBD
Other possibilities: Little Foxes, The Simple Home, Sink Reflections, Simplified Organization, How To Sew A Button And Other Nifty Things Your Grandmother Knew, Home Comforts
{Historical}
History is a big interest for me, and I want to read more historical non-fiction this year, since the bulk of my unread shelves are historical non-fiction. However, I am not making this category strictly non-fiction. Anything historical will do.
Land Of Hope: An Invitation To The Great American Story by Wilfred M. McClay
John G. Paton, Missionary To The New Hebrides: An Autobiography
TBD
TBD
Other Possibilities: The Guns Of August, Jane Austen’s England, Democracy In America, Autobiography Of Theodore Roosevelt, 32 Christians Who Changed Their World
{Books About Books}
This is a flex category that may change over the course of the year. I am a bibliophile, so any books about the activity of reading, or about literature of any kind, will fit in this category.
How To Read A Book: Advice For Christian Readers by Andrew David Naselli
The Mysteries Of Life In Children’s Literature by Dr. Mitchell Kalpakgian
Writers To Read: nine Names That Belong On Your Bookshelf by Douglas Wilson
Heroes Of The City Of Man: A Christian Guide To Select Ancient Literature by Peter Leithart
Other Possibilities: Lit!, The Christian Imagination, Book Girl, The Read-Aloud Family, A Landscape Of Dragons
{Art & Music}
This is a category that could encompass books about works of art, artist biographies, or art tutorial books - I’m leaving it broad intentionally.
Frederic Remington: Artist Of The Western Frontier by John Stewart
The Gift Of Music: Great Composers And Their Influence by Jane Stuart Smith
TBD
Other Possibilities: Van Gogh Has A Broken Heart, Terri Harrison’s Watercolor Secrets, Everyday Watercolor, Modern Drawing
The G3 Reading Challenge
I almost didn’t want to tackle this challenge this year, because there are a couple categories that are going to be really stretching for me (marked by an asterisk below) - but then, that’s rather the point of a reading challenge isn’t it? So these are the categories and my tentative picks for each one so far.
{A Book About Faith}
{A Biography}
John G. Paton, Missionary To The New Hebrides: An Autobiography
{A Book About The Middle Ages}
The Year 1000: What Life Was Like At The Turn Of The First Millennium by Robert Lacey
{An Epic Poem}*
The Iliad by Homer (Fitzgerald translation)
{A Book By Charles Or Susannah Spurgeon}
Probably A Book Of Spurgeon’s Sermons
{A Book About Health Or Nutrition}*
Really Very Crunchy: A Beginner’s Guide tO Remove Toxins From Your Life Without Adding Them To Your Personality by Emily Marrow (This is a really lightweight health book, so a little bit of a cheat, but that’s okay.)
{A Shakespeare Play}
Julius Ceasar (We will be reading this in our homeschool this Spring.)
{A Book About Quiet}
{A Novel}
Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy (I will 100% be reading many novels this year, but I’d like to challenge myself to read this one.)
{A Book From The Living Heritage High School Curriculum}
On Writing Well by William Zinsser
{A Book You Own But Haven’t Read}
(Any of the above will fit here.)
If I can stick to these reading plans, I think the quality of my reading will go up, and I am hoping to have alot more book posts to share here this year! If you’d like to follow along, I hope you’ll subscribe, and please leave me a comment about one of your reading goals this year. The comments and likes and subscribes make my day, truly!
What reading goal(s) have you set this year?
January is a time for evaluating and tweaking. I’m not so much for making grand New Year’s resolutions, but I do think the New Year is a good time to take stock and see what things need adjusting. I saw this post format on A Gentle Defiance, and I liked the idea of thinking through what I’d like to continue from the previous year (it’s important to acknowledge successes), and what things I wish would have been better.
What Worked
Adding a little more to my proverbial plate.
When my kids were little, it was all I could do to take care of them and my home. I found myself overwhelmed and stressed with too many outside commitments, and I came to the realization that I needed to ruthlessly cut them out. It was the best thing I could have done for my own mental state and my family in that stage of life, and I regret nothing. However, over the last couple years I found myself with more space to take on new projects - and as I’ve added more work to my metaphorical plate, it hasn’t seemed overwhelming, but motivating. Overall, my being ready to take on a little bit more has meant more meaningful community and experiences for myself and the kids. I think it’s so important to know your limits - and that involves knowing when to cut back as well as knowing when to add things in.
Waking up early.
This year I bumped my wake-up time back another hour, and I’ve been more consistent than ever in having quiet coffee and reading time before my kids wake up. It’s been a game changer for me in providing time for meaningful Bible study and letting me get through some tougher books. It is definitely something that I will be continuing in 2025.
Changing our homeschool history curriculum.
This school year I decided to jump into a Charlotte Mason style with both feet, especially when it comes to teaching history, geography, and literature to my kids. I am by no means a purist, but I have always loved the idea of teaching history through living books, as opposed to textbooks. With my oldest starting 8th grade, this seemed like the year to figure out if this style of education was for us, and it has been a rousing success so far! I will give a more complete opinion once we have finished the school year, but we are doing this curriculum (with some adaptations), and everyone is enjoying it.
Being more aware of how I’m spending our money.
I wrote last year about starting a short no-buy project, and even though I don’t feel it was a total success, it kicked off a full year of being more conscious of my spending. I watched Youtube channels about no-buy journeys and no-buy advice, I am slowly reading books about contentment and shopping habits, and I’ve set various limits on my shopping and spending from month to month. Developing better habits isn’t a one-year project but something I’ll need to continually tweak. Just keeping these topics in mind has changed the way I think about the things I buy, and it’s been positive. I’m excited to keep working on this and hope to write more in 2025.
Figuring out my own style again.
I’ve always enjoyed clothes and taken enjoyment out of developing my style, but after taking a nearly 8 year break from normal clothes when I was pregnant and postpartum, I started floundering when it came to shopping and getting dressed. Somewhere along the way my style had become merely buying whatever I thought looked good on someone else - I had lost my own sense of style. I spent this year sorting through my closet and cleared out many things that don’t make me feel my best, considering what makes a certain outfit or item of clothing feel like “me”. Putting the effort into this has helped me avoid buying trendy items or being influenced to buy things because I saw it on social media. This process is just starting for me, but I’m more excited about my closet and more satisfied with my purchases since trying to figure this out.
Satisfaction in the kitchen and learning new things.
This year I was much more consistent in my bread-baking. I bake bread in a bread machine with fresh ground grains, and it took me years to perfect the recipe for my particular altitude. I made bread nearly bi-weekly for much of the year, and it is wonderful to be using a skill I’ve worked on for so long to benefit my family.
The new thing I learned was how to water-bath can - as in preserving food. I have a generous friend from our church who took me under her wing this last summer and taught me how to safely can at home. I’m thankful to her for giving me the courage to try something new! On her recommendation I’ve read the safety guidelines from this book, and I’ve made and canned blueberry jam, apple pie in-a-jar, apple butter, and candied jalapeños. Hearing the pop of the safety lid on my jars is so satisfying.
What Didn’t Work
My reading was all over the place.
I found myself in a reading rut multiple times this year, and it’s going to take some evaluating to figure out exactly way. I read barely anything in the first quarter of 2024, and I was disappointed in my progress in the books I was reading. I suspect I was trying to read too many “stiff” books at once. Stiff books are challenging books, and I learned from personal experience that reading all challenging books means that when I am lacking the mental energy for that kind of book I just won’t read at all. Karen Andreola recommends having one “stiff” book, one moderately easy book, and one novel going at a time, and I think this balance is something I’d like to incorporate into my reading life in 2025.
I lacked the consistency to complete projects, especially in the summer.
My goal for the summer was to organize the ridiculous stack of papers stuffed into my nightstand shelf, and to print photos from previous years and get them into albums. I did neither of those things, and it was out of pure laziness. I need to figure out a way to consistently work on these multi-part projects in a manageable way. My current pattern is to spend one or two exhaustingly tedious days trying to complete everything at once, not finishing, and then avoiding continuing that project for months because the last time I worked on it was so tiring.
I didn’t save enough money.
In 2024 my focus was on being more aware of my spending habits, but toward the end of the year I decided to translate that into also saving more money. I have done much better at designating money for savings in the last couple months, but I could have helped the family out with various expenses if that had been a focus for more of my year. So in 2025, I am intentionally saving for some very specific things, and doing that will help me not only with shopping habits, but will bring more tangible benefits to my family as well.
I wasn’t consistent enough with vitamins and drinking water.
There are a few supplements that I need to be taking, per my doctor, but my consistency leaves something to be desired. I also have a tendency to reach for the coffee pot more than my water bottle, and I’d like to be better about hydrating in 2025.
Wasting too much time consuming media.
I often find myself turning on a Youtube video or a podcast “just while I clean the kitchen”, and before I know it I’ve wasted a couple hours fiddling around the house while I listen. That time could be used reading, or learning to crochet, or writing here. And don’t even get me started on scrolling on Instagram - I’m much better at controlling my consumption of social media than in the past, but there is still much improvement to be had. My goal is to spend more time creatively producing, and to have that outweigh time spent consuming this year.
As I look at this list, I’m excited to see what 2025 will bring. I hope this will be a year of more meaningful reading, getting myself organized, managing money more wisely, and enjoying my time with loved ones and friends. And I hope the same for you!
Leave me a comment!
What is one thing that worked for you last year, and one thing that needs to change?
I’m typing this on New Year’s Eve. The Christmas decorations are starting to feel like clutter, and there are still a few opened presents piled into random corners. I am choosing to ignore all of that, and I’m sitting next to our wood stove with a cheap mechanical paper and a list of New Year’s Eve questions.
I don’t think I’ve ever taken such intentional time on New Year’s Eve to reflect on the previous year, but if I’ve needed it any year, it’s this one. “Pick three words to describe this past year,” the paper commands me. My three words combined give an impression of the year that feels more negative than it actually was, but I don’t think I can change any of them.
Quiet. So many years can be described this way, but this is how the year felt internally for me. Not alot happened this year that was life-changing, there were no major events. We didn’t do anything very grand. We made outings of local sights, we played alot of games, we hung around here. We visited family, had dinners with friends, went to the pool, went roller skating, went on hikes. No huge vacations or parties or weekend trips. Just quiet. There is a subtle difference between “quiet” and “peace”, but I found this year that the first can lead to the second if you have the right perspective.
Disappointments. Alot of things did not go to plan this year. We had to cancel plans, shell out savings money for broken appliances, and subsequently rework our budget. We weren’t able to take a trip to see our dear out-of-state friends as planned, and that one hurt. We had some unexpected challenges that made me slow down and appreciate the time I have with my loved ones, because each day is a gift, but we don’t always notice that. Many things that happened this past year have reminded me that death can come for us at any time - and having that in mind shouldn’t be morbid, but should fix my eyes on things that really matter. Knowing God more, loving Him better, living “before the face of God” - coram Deo, something I learned from R. C. Sproul - these are pursuits that are never wasted. Disappointments remind us Christians that this world isn’t our ultimate home. We are just passing through.
“You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our hearts are restless until they find their rest in You.”
-Augustine
Togetherness. Even though we didn’t get to do all the grand things this year, in the end, I think it was a good thing. We had to get a little more creative to plan fun things to do, and those things ended up being fun because of the people we were with, not the thing we were doing. I’ve appreciated more than ever having a happy, healthy family life, having friends we love, having extended family relationships that are a peaceful joy in our lives. Not everyone can say those things. These are true riches.
“Create a statement that describes this past year for you,” the paper prompts me.
I tap my pencil against my teeth, and hesitate. Creating a phrase to represent a whole year is no small task.
This is what I scribble down.
Disappointments are inevitable, but time is a treasure I can’t take for granted.
Lord, teach me to number my days, that I may gain a heart of wisdom.
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Between Christmas break, cozy fires, and Christmas lights gleaming, December always ends up being a decent reading month for me. I read several winners this month, and I’m wrapping up the 2024 reading year quite satisfied overall.
Be sure to scroll to the bottom of this post for a list of my favorite reads from the year, and please leave a comment and let me know your best book of the year too!
Live Not By Lies by Rob Dreher
This book was an interesting exploration of how people, and specifically Christians, handled oppression under communism in Eastern Europe. I thought he made alot of interesting points about ways to stay connected and keep your spirits up in the midst of a tyrannical governmental system. I enjoyed the first half, and started to get bogged down in too many names and stories in the second half - some of his points got a little muddy for me. However, the title of the book really sums up the best advice of this book and all the people that Dreher interviewed - to be careful not to let an oppressive government or culture cause you to "live by lies" - that is, to fall into the easy path of going along to get along and act in a way that is against the things you believe in just to avoid conflict. Overall, an interesting read.
The Penderwicks and The Penderwicks On Graham Street by Jeanne Birdsall
These were re-reads for me as I listened to them with the kids. My kids found them hilarious and delightful. These books follow the girls of the Penderwick family as they go on vacation and meet a new friend (Book 1), and then try to foil their father's attempts at starting to date again (Book 2). Content Notes: In Book 2, one of the more dramatic characters gets very into the Aztecs, and unseriously "prays" to a false god. It's a brief scene, so the kids and I talked about it, but we throughly enjoyed the rest of the books. Can't wait to start the third book together!
Halloween Party by Agatha Christie
I have long been a fan of Hercule Poirot books, and this is one I am not sure I ever read. A girl is killed at a Halloween Party, and Hercule Poirot suspects this event may be tied to seemingly unrelated crimes from years before. The ending of this book was not totally satisfying to me, since the criminal died before he could face justice. The ending was a little more twisted than some of Agatha Christie's earlier books. It's long been a goal of mine to read the Hercule Poirot series in order, and I think I may have to do that and see how Christie's writings and endings develop. Content Notes: There was more talk about there possible being a sexual abuse aspect to the crime in this book than in Christie's other books.
Pitchin’ A Fit: Overcoming Angry And Stressed Out Parenting by Israel Wayne
This is a book I've picked up here and there over a couple years now, and I finally completed it. Wayne gives alot of wise advice for Christians on how to not let stress and anger seep into their parenting. It will probably be one I read again at some point, because there were so many tips I've probably forgotten by now. One thought that stands out to me from when I recently picked it up is that it takes alot of strength to be gentle, and I've been pondering on that.
How To Solve Your Own Murder by Kristen Perrin
I picked this book up on a whim when I saw it at the library, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. Annie Adams just finds out that her great Aunt Frances intends to change her will to let Annie inherit, but when Annie arrives for the meeting with Frances, they find her murdered in her mansion. We find out that Frances received a prediction of her murder from a fortune teller as a teenager, and she has been determined to prevent her own murder for years before her ultimate demise. Annie finds Frances's diary, and we flash back and forth between Annie in the current day and Frances's teenage self, learning more about Frances's troubled friendships while Annie tries to solve her murder. This felt like an old-school murder mystery book, with all the charm that implies. At the end of the book, Annie finds more of Frances's journals - and I immediately googled to see if there will be another book, and there will be in 2025! So I'm looking forward to that. Content Notes: Scattered cursing, two of the characters start to "fool around" before getting interrupted, fornication is part of the conflict in the book but not described, one of the side characters is in a lesbian relationship (but it's not a big part of the plot).
A Lot Like Christmas by Connie Willis
This was a collection of Christmas, science fiction short stories. That sounds weird, but it really worked! I had some moral, ethical, and/or theological issues with two of the stories in particular - “Epiphany”, which was playing off some of the symbolic language in Revelation in a non-biblical way, and the ending of “Cat’s Paw”, which made a point that an animal had more value than an insane human being. I had minor quibbles in other chapters, but those two stories were the main ones I took issue with. But overall, I was willing to overlook a couple story elements or statements I didn’t appreciate because I so thoroughly enjoyed the rest of these stories. If you want a different type of Christmas fiction book, this is a fun one! Content Notes: Some minor cussing, a couple vague references to physical relationships between characters, and the aforementioned moral/theological issues with some of the stories.
A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens
This is my second year in a row reading this book to my older kids, and I highly recommend the experience, but you must do the voices while reading. It's a requirement.
Merry Ex-mas by Courtney Walsh
I overall liked this book. It was a cute Christmas romance story - Marin finally comes home for Christmas, only to discover that her ex boyfriend, Max, is staying at her parents’ house. Marin and her producer decide to play up the chemistry with Max to help Marin gain viewers and win her a promotion, but in the process Marin and Max end up sorting through their feelings and rekindling the romance. I liked the atmosphere of this novel was fun and Christmas, and I appreciated it was mostly clean.
There were a few things I wasn’t crazy about in the book, so I’ll just mention a couple - my biggest complaint is that Max’s character was too perfect. Marin was very bratty at times, and in response he did and said all the right things, with nary an annoyance or hurt feeling in sight. That felt unrealistic to me, and didn’t bring real stakes to the question of whether they would work things out, because it was very clear Max was willing to put up with anything. I think it would have worked better for me if we only saw Marin’s perspective instead of the dual perspectives, because it would have left us more in doubt about where Max stood.
Also, even though this is billed as a clean romance, there was a lot of lust on both sides, but especially for Marin, who was constantly noticing Max’s physique and even touched his rear end and commented on its firmness while she was drunk. I don’t like when female OR make characters are treated like a piece of meat, and it kind of felt like that at times.
As The Darkness Clears Away by Thomas Ascol
Loved this advent book - had a good amount of depth, biblically sound, and touched on several aspects of the birth of Jesus that are not usually covered in devotional books. Probably in my top five advent devotionals! Reading this also led me to learn the hymn that the title is referencing, and it was a nice addition to our Christmas season.
2024 Reading In Sum
Since this is my last book post of 2024, I want to share a reading summary for the year! Here are my favorite books, in no particular order...
My Top Non-Fiction Books:
Bad Therapy: Why The Kids Aren’t Growing Up by Abigail Shrier
Bread Of Life: Savoring The All-Satisfying Goodness Of Jesus Through Breadmaking by Abigail Dodds
Sound Worship: A Guide To Making Musical Choices In A Noisy World by Scott Aniol
My Top Fiction Books:
Pages Read: 14,007Books Read: 55Average Book Length: 254 pages
---Other book posts from 2024:
Please see these posts for reviews of all the books I mentioned above, plus many more.
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