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When I was a kid I lived about thirty minutes away from where I live now, another thousand feet or so in elevation, on the shady side of a valley. We used to get feet of snow piled up by midwinter, and it wouldn't start to melt until March. We had a little dachshund, and he used to go out in the snow - looking at him from the window, all you would see is a little dog bounding up and disappearing beneath the drifts.
In the last 10-15 years we've been in a dry period, and there hasn't been as much snow, even at my parents' house on the shady side of the valley. But if the Farmer's Almanacs from the last couple years are to be believed, we are trending back toward snowier winters again. I hope it's true, because I love a snowy winter, and it makes for more beautiful summers.
This last weekend we went to my parents' house for Sunday dinner. I don't know if they have feet of snow, but they have several inches coating the ground at least, and even more exciting, they have brand-new snowmobiles! I always heard stories growing up about how my mom fell off a snowmobile when she was pregnant, and I have vague memories of riding with my dad and uncle around the house we lived in when I was a baby.
I am really happy that my mom and dad get to create new memories on snowmobiles now. There is something really satisfying about seeing your parents enjoying their empty nest years, hanging out together, and doing something fun just because.
Of course, when we visited they let us ride the snowmobiles too, which is an added bonus!
Slow Motion Racing
Aside from snowmobiling on Sunday, this has been a fairly quiet, but fun, week. Before Christmas break, as we finished up our Botany science curriculum, Clyde asked if we could learn about cars for science in the spring. I really had no idea where to go with that, but I determined to try to put together a car-related science study. One of the ideas I came up with is to learn about the concepts of motion and energy, and on Monday I pulled out the new science curriculum (this one, in case you are interested). We had races and timed and calculated everyone's speed, but the most entertaining part of the whole day was when I filmed a slow-motion video to determine who won the races. The kids gathered around my phone to watch, and they laughed so hard seeing themselves in slow motion. I captured a hilarious video of their slow-motion running faces, and Derek and I have watched it several times as a pick-me-up. They are just so funny and cute!
Friends, Family, And Awana
On Tuesday we met our friends at the park, which is something that we have not been able to do for a while, and it was much-needed refreshment! The kids played, the littler ones got some good practice at coming when called, and it was a gorgeous day out. I had been in winter mode prior to Tuesday, but now I admit I'm starting to itch for signs of spring! I'll still take all the snow though. My feelings are right in the middle.
Wednesday was neon night for Awana, so we picked up some tie dye on the way home from the park and made shirts Tuesday night. However, too late I realized that I forgot to get the shirts wet before applying the dye, so it didn't spread well at all. Back down to town I went on Wednesday morning to get more dye, and the second attempt worked a little better.
I hope the third time is the charm, because some friends and I decided to give tie dye a try for ourselves during a little craft brunch later this month! In case you didn't notice, tie dye seems to be the trend this spring. Try counting the number of tie dye items you spot next time you go to Target and you'll see what I mean.
Every year my mom takes each of her grandkids out for a shopping day and sleepover for their birthday, and Wyatt's birthday is coming up this month. The boy cousins will be at the sleepover tomorrow night, so we decided to do a game night with my sister's family since we'll both only have our girls. We are going to play this game that we got a couple years ago - it's a very multi-faceted, complicated strategy game, if you also like that sort of thing!
That's All, Folks
All that to say, this was our busiest week of 2021 so far. Maybe I'm getting old, because I'm tired just thinking about it, but also very happy. I'm so glad to be able to see friends and family and make memories - it's not something we don't take for granted anymore, is it?
I'm typing this up on Thursday night, and Derek and I decided earlier that he would go do his workout this evening while I watch a documentary about World War 1 called "They Shall not Grow Old". I'm a big documentary fan, and Derek is a little more picky in his documentary tastes, so we always have a conundrum when I have one that I want to watch. This seemed like a good solution.
My blog buddy Brittney recommended this one to me last year around this time (when I wrote about doing a World War 1 study project), and I'm just now getting around to watching it. Do you see why I'll probably need two years to properly go through all my World War 1 resources? Maybe it's taking so long because of procrastination, but I will eventually read and watch everything on my list. I am thinking about writing a post with my favorite World War 1 resources so far.
(Update: The documentary was really good - it was exclusively quotes from WW1 veterans played over actual footage from the war that had been colorized. It was so interesting!)
Also on the blog docket...and update about how it is going without social media, since I've been without all social media for about a month now (except very light use of MeWe). Spoiler: it's going really well, and I have a lot of thoughts about it I'd like to share as they have a chance to settle a bit.
It's almost the kids' bedtime, and Clarice and Georgie have been running in and out of the room as I'm typing this, telling me very mundane bits of information, such as "Guess what, Mom? Dad already fed us dinner!". So I'm going to go give them some attention before we tuck them in.
What have you been up to this week?
Despite not getting much done in January, one area that was above average was the amount of books I read! I read eleven books in January. My record is twelve books in one month, so this was pretty close! Here are the books I read, and brief thoughts about them.
The Best Christmas Pageant Ever by Barbara Robinson - This was our read aloud from December that we finished up in January. The Herdmans are the worst kids in town, and when they decide they want all the major parts in the church Christmas pageant, drama ensues. My kids thought this book was hilarious, and we all liked the end when the Herdmans start to see the true meaning of Christmas, and inadvertently help everyone else see it too. Content notes: Some mean names, I just edited them out as I was reading it.
Love Your Life Not Theirs by Rachel Cruze - This book is written by Dave Ramsey’s daughter, so if you know his money philosophy, you already know most of what is in this book. Cruze presents her points in an engaging way, and I generally agree with her money “habits”. The book was motivating, and helped me refocus my money strategy, but my self-help-averse side didn’t always love the way she so specifically told the reader what to do. (There is a reason I don’t read many self-help books.)
Raising Them Up by Israel Wayne - Two parenting books in two months, who even am I? Like I said last month, I am picky about the parenting books I read, but I had heard Wayne speak before, so I picked up this one. While the chapters seemed a little disconnected, there is a lot of solid biblical parenting advice and good points to consider in this book. I’d recommend it!
Lord Of The Flies by William Golding - My friend Danae and I were going to read this together two years ago, and I’m just now finishing it. Whoops! I’m really glad I read this for the first time as an adult, because I got so much out of it. I thought the political analogy was really interesting in this book, and also found the portrayal of the fallenness of human nature very impactful. I read a quote from the author talking about how the boys are rescued from their worst impulses by the arrival of the navy, but his question was, who is going to rescue the adults from all the evil we commit against each other? And that made me think about how as Christians, we DO have a Rescuer coming (Jesus!) to save us from our sin and evil natures. So I found this book really meaningful, and in an odd way, uplifting, because of that. Content notes: Lots of violence, and disturbing imagery.
Sweep: The Story Of A Girl And Her Monster by Jonathan Auxier - In this middle-grade book, a girl who is a chimney sweep in Victorian London is rescued from a chimney fire by a small piece of char that has come to life (given to her by her adoptive father before he died). There are strong themes of loss in this book, so if I were to let my kids read it someday, I’d wait until the older end of the age range. I think it’s probably going to be more appreciated by older kids or adults with a little more life experience - personally, I loved it. It made me tear up multiple times, and the ending was perfect. Content notes: Sad themes, fantastical/magical elements.
The Curious Incident Of The Dog In The Nighttime by Mark Haddon - This book is written from the perspective of a child with autism, as he tries to navigate the very adult problems of the people around him. In one sense, I thought it was really interesting to read a book about an autistic character - on the other hand, it broke my heart a little bit to read how he was affected by a lot of the poor decisions of the adults in his life. Interesting, but not very uplifting, and not for kids. Content notes: Lots of cussing, adult situation references (you can read between the lines here, right?), and various atheistic/evolutionary references since the kid doesn't believe in God.
The Lake House by Kate Morton - A one year old disappears from the family estate and is never found. Years later, a detective on leave stumbles upon the old estate and starts digging into the case. Kate Morton always does a fantastic job of tying up every loose end in a surprising way. This was one of her better books I’ve read so far! Content notes: Infidelity is part of the plot, no explicit descriptions.
The 7 1/2 Deaths Of Evelyn Hardcastle by Stuart Turton - The plot of this book is wild - a man wakes up in a body that is not his own, and finds out he will wake up in a different character’s body each day over the course of a week, as he tries to solve the murder of Evelyn Hardcastle. This book has definite creepy elements - the main character is basically trapped in a bizarre psychological prison. Despite the weird elements (it was definitely not written with a Christian spiritual framework), the mystery and the way the author weaves together such a bizarre plot was interesting to me. Not entirely sure if I’d recommend it or not, but it did keep me reading. Content notes: Rather graphic on the violence, infidelity (not explicitly described), and bizarre supernatural elements required for the plot.
Narrative Of The Life Of Frederick Douglas by Frederick Douglas - This is the autobiography of Frederick Douglas, written after he escaped slavery. Despite being written so long ago, this book is written in a really engaging way, and I found Douglas's escape and viewpoint on slavery (which was still legal in the south at the time he wrote this) so interesting. He wrote this book in part to convince others of the evils of slavery, and I found it really moving. Definitely recommend if you are interested in the pre-Civil War time period.
The Narcissism Epidemic by Jean M. Twenge - This book addresses the different cultural trends that are leading to a rise of narcissism. I found this book really insightful and interesting, though the definition of narcissism was slightly more narrow than other definitions I've come across. I found this especially interesting to read as a parent, thinking about how I can protect my kids against the cultural narcissism that is almost encouraged today. I'd recommend it if you are interested in psychological and cultural subjects.
World Religions And Cults: Volume Two by Ken Ham and Bodie Hodge - This series is a summary of all the world religions, and is written from a Christian perspective. What I love about these books is how each chapter not only tells about a different religion, but it explains how it is different from Christianity, and how the people in each religion can be reached for Christ. I'm planning on moving on to the third volume this month, but these books, though engaging, are so full of information that I know it will take me a while to finish the third one!
And that's it for January! Remember, if you fill out the survey in this post (make sure to include your email), you will be entered to win one of these books, or one of the books I finish in February! You can sign up for my newsletter if you want a sneak peek of the books I'm going to attempt to finish in February (no guarantees, but I'll try!).
Have you read any of the books I read in January? What did you think? Am I the only one who hasn't read The Lord Of The Flies until now? What have you been reading this month?
Specifically this morning I am trying to sort out my plans for this blog. I haven't been posting as much as I want to this month, partly because my brain has been so full of all the thoughts I didn't have time to think when I was on Instagram so much, and also because I am trying to sort out what kind of things to share here.
For the past few years I had developed pretty distinct boundaries for what type of thing I would share on social media, and what type of thing was more "worthy" of this blog...but now that I am not on Instagram, I am trying to figure out what kind of content I should migrate to my blog (and how), and what kind of content I should just let go.
How often should I post? Are short posts frustrating for blog readers, or would you all like more frequent updates? How much should I share of my daily life on this blog, and how many posts should still be topic-focused?
It's a lot to think about, figuring out how to make my ideas interesting for this medium again.
So all that to say, if you are a regular reader of this blog, I would really appreciate if you would give me an idea of what kind of posts you would be interested in seeing here. I need a little guidance on where to put my efforts going forward, and how best to still connect with my online buddies without the immediacy of Instagram. Would you mind out filling out the survey below? Or you can click here.
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Beginning...to think it may have been a mistake, but I started reading The Brothers Karamazov again. I attempted to read it a couple years ago, and I got about halfway through it before 1) the book slowed way down and I lost focus, and 2) I got so confused about some of the cultural aspects of the book that I didn't know what was going on anymore. (Katerina paid Dmitriy and he took off with her money? Or he didn't pay her money? Or he didn't pay her back? Something happened with some payment and I'm super confused.). This time I'm participating in this read-along on Youtube, and hoping some of these people who are really into Russian history can give me some clarity.
Reading...an actual, honest-to-goodness monthly TBR (to-be-read list). I've always resisted creating lists of books to read each month because I'm a hopeless mood reader. But I realized that mood-reading didn't go so well last year - it was a slow reading year for me. I have been creating my own book categories for each month, and slotting in my reading choices, and so far it's keeping me pretty focused and productive in my reading. I plan to continue it into February. I don't want to share my TBR lists though, because I need the flexibility to swap books out for my different categories if my moods change!
Organizing...I wrote last week about some of the things I've been organizing, so I won't go into detail here, but at this immediate moment I am sorting through December's photos. I kind of forgot about this winter hike we took until I saw the photos again, so I'm going to be lazy and use them in this post today!
Drinking...chai tea. I've been drinking a lot of tea this week, trying to resist the urge to eat the rest of the Christmas chocolate. Somehow if I eat just one or two pieces, and then top it off with a mug of tea, it satisfies my urge to ingest something sweet while we watch our shows. Chai is especially hitting the spot - it snowed this week, and I spent some time reading a book under twinkle lights, with my tea, while it stormed outside. It was lovely.
Feeling...out of sorts, once again, and realizing that whenever something stressful happens in the country I majorly slack off on blogging while I obsessively read the news. As you can imagine, this is not a great routine for my mental health, and there have been several periods like this in the last year (May/June, November, now). I am trying hard to reset this week and get back to reading my books, getting us into an efficient school routine, working out regularly, etc. You know, structure. Order. Necessary things.
Watching...I'll tell you what I'm not watching today, and that's the inauguration. No, thank you. I'm sure if something noteworthy happens I'll hear about it. No, this week I've been watching Monk and The Mandalorian with Derek (we're late to the party on that one), and Intervention by myself. Derek doesn't like Intervention, but I find it a little...soothing, maybe?...to watch people agree to treatment for their addictions, and hopefully turn their lives around. It's uplifting to me.
Wondering...if I'll ever return to Facebook or Instagram. I haven't quite got up the nerve to delete my accounts, but I did inactivate my Facebook, with Instagram to follow.
I honestly don't think I'll ever go back. Aside from all the Big Tech insanity right now (if you are not at least a little alarmed, I'm not sure you're paying attention), I've found my first few weeks untethered to Instagram deeply refreshing. I've taken social media breaks before, but it was always with the thought of someday returning to the platforms, so I didn't feel truly free of them. Now I do.
I feel more present (and I hate that word, but can't think of a better one), more in tune with the needs of my family. More aware of the areas I have been selfish, the ways I have let social media suck away my time and my joy in motherhood. I'm actually noticing more frequently the cute little things my kids do, letting this young family stage hit my heart in a way it sometimes didn't when my face was always in my phone. I'm convicted for allowing Instagram to steal my focus, thankful for the way the Lord has opened my eyes to problems it was creating in my own heart.
I wish I had let go of Big Tech and addictive social media sooner. I don't think I even realized how badly it was affecting me until I no longer allowed it to be an option. I'll probably write more about leaving big social media as I let this new stage settle in, but I'm excited about it, and thankful for all of you who stick around to read my blog. This is more meaningful place for me to share my thoughts, and I hope a more meaningful place for you to read them. (Bekah's post on blogging yesterday made me so grateful again for this blog community that persists!)
Resolving...to write more letters this year. I think I resolve every year to write more letters, and I rarely do as well as I want to, but I think it's important to keep trying. Letter-writing is one of those traditions that is being lost, and it makes me so sad. Nowadays we all shout at each other on social media, but isn't it more emotionally satisfying, more meaningful, more impactful to you as a person, to get a letter written to you by a friend? Even if it's full of nothing important, it's a tangible piece of evidence that someone resisted the urge to shout into the internet ether, and instead thought of you individually and wanted you to read words written just for you. That's even more special than it used to be, I think.
What are you all up to this month?
Ah, January! The month when we all suddenly get the urge to organize and plan our lives.
Really though, every January I make a plan to get things organized. Sometimes my goals work out and I do make improvements, like the year I finally developed a morning routine. Other times my best laid plans for...well, planning better, fall through. Whatever happens, I will always love that fresh feeling that January brings. In fact, I am probably even more motivated to get organized after a roller coaster of a year in 2020.
These are three things I'm planning on organizing better in 2021:
Photos
For the past couple years I have been printing up the year's worth of photos in December, including the best ones of each of my kids to put into a little album for their stockings - and I take a lot of photos each year. It is a pretty huge project to sort through an entire year's worth of photos, get them printed, and get them into albums. In fact, I didn't even finish the kid's albums in time this year.
I'd like to handle photos differently in 2021 - my goal is to print up photos at the end of each month. This would help spread out the cost, and also keep me on track with only choosing the very best photos to print. (In December, I found myself getting a little lazy in the 2020 photo sorting and selecting too many to print - I was just tired of staring at a screen and wanted it to be over!)
Home Management
This year in my everlasting quest to find a planning system that actually works for me, I am attempting to organize my own home management binder. One thing I hate about planners, and that has hindered me from finding a planner that works for me, is that I hate wasted pages. I hate them so much that if I feel too many pages are being wasted in my planner, I end up throwing the whole system out. I am hoping in printing up only the types of planning pages I'll actually use, I can create my own planner/organization system that works for me. I am focusing on these areas:
-Cleaning Routines
-Meal Planning
-Budget Planning
-Address Organizing
-Blog Planning
I particularly wanted to focus on getting more organized with household chores and such, because I think I've been in a "survival mode" when it comes to homemaking for so many years (with all our babies and toddlers) that I have really become dysfunctionally disorganized in some areas.
My kids are older now, and I'm realizing I don't have to be in survival mode anymore - I actually have the time and energy now to do homemaking well. I want to do that for my family - I think it will make for a peaceful and more relaxing home environment for Derek and the kids, and it'll help me be a better servant to my family, which is something I feel the Lord is calling me to focus on in this stage of my life.
The Kids' Drawings
All these years I have been putting my kids best drawings in keepsake boxes that I have scattered around the house, but I have had no method of organizing their drawings at all. I write the name of the child, and the date, on the back, stuff it in a box, and forget about it.
I didn't even really think about there being another way until Christmas, when my grandmother gave me a keepsake binder with a lot of special papers she had collected over the years. It was a very special and sweet gift, and it also made me realize it doesn't matter if keepsake papers are put into a beautiful scrapbook, with decorations and photos. They are just as special and beautiful when using a simple organization system like a binder with page protectors.
So this year I am going to sort the kids' art into binders, and create a separate one where I can keep the notes and pictures they make for me. It's a more compact way to store things, and this way those papers can be protected better while also creating a better way to actually look at them occasionally!
I am excited to have a plan for becoming a little better organized in these areas in 2021! We shall see how it goes. Are you focusing on any areas for improvement this year?
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I also made a chatty video about everything I just wrote about, but I tacked on a little mini book haul at the end if you are interested in watching!
This year I am hoping to do a monthly recap of what I'm reading, to be posted before the 15th of each month (at least that's my goal). I haven't been tracking my books in Goodreads for a while, instead I had been writing notes about my books in my bullet journal, with intentions of sharing on my blog each season. However, last year at the beginning of each quarter I'd find myself a little overwhelmed at the thought of writing about that many books, and I'd procrastinate and never share. I am trying to be more organized about my reading in 2021, and part of that will be recording and sharing my books each month with all of you!
So, the first installment of my little series will actually look back on what I read in December. Last year was not a great reading year for me, since I was too distracted by the news to keep on track with my reading. In December I course-corrected a bit and finished a few books!
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Catching Christmas by Terri Blackstock - I read this on audio, and I have to say the audio was great. The story is about a grumpy taxi driver who is roped into driving around an older lady with dementia who is trying to set up her granddaughter. There is obviously a light bit of romance. It's also Christian fiction, so there was a message about the taxi driver coming back to his faith, but it was pretty subtle. The driver was meant to remind you of a character like Luke in Gilmore Girls, and I have to say I enjoyed it! I love me a good grumpy character. Content Note: Clean.
A Marriage Carol by Chris Fabry - This book is not my usual style, but I was in a Christmas-y mood and decided to give it a try. A couple is on their way to get a divorce, but they get in a car accident and the wife finds herself at a mysterious cabin exploring Christmases past, present, and future. I don't usually enjoy reading books about people having marriage problems (I just find it depressing), but this one was cute overall, with a sweet ending. Content Note: One reference to a honeymoon activity, ahem, but overall clean.
Last Christmas In Paris by Hazel Gaynor - Listened to this on audio as well, and it was so wonderful. Probably my favorite book from December. This is an epistolary novel, in which a British girl writes letters to her brother and childhood friend as they head to the front lines of World War One, and the childhood friend writes back...and love blossoms, though neither one knows because of lost letters and other drama. I loved it so much, and it had the added bonus of being a World War 1 book, which fits with my personal study project! Content Note: Mild cursing.
The Two Towers by J.R.R. Tolkien - This was a re-read for me, one that I've been working on for months but finally finished in December. The last quarter of the book is always the best, and I flew through it once the storyline switched back to Frodo and Sam.
Red Queen by Vivtoria Aveyard - Interesting fantasy/dystopian book, in which society is divided into those who have red blood, and those who have silver blood accompanied by super-powers...until a red girl mysteriously discovers powers of her own. Of course there is the obligatory love triangle. I really enjoyed this book, but weirdly I also disliked the main character. I thought she was judgmental and a little whiny - she almost felt entitled, which was ironic since I think the silvers were supposed to be the entitled ones. I'll probably try the next book because this one was quick-paced with an interesting plot, but I'm not sure if I'll like how it turns out. Content Note: A lot of violence, some kissing.
Deceived No More by Doreen Virtue - A great testimony book written by a women who was previously a best-selling New Age author, before Jesus saved her out of the New Age. I find New Age testimonies really fascinating, and I thought the author did a great job of rooting this entire book in Scripture and pointing the reader back to Christ and what He has done to save us. I loved it!
Charlie And The Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl - I read this one aloud to the kids. I had never read it before, and is so often the case, the book is much better than the movie! A few rude names throughout, but since I was reading it to the kids I just committed those. Good morals in this book about not cheating, not being rude and spoiled, etc. My kids loved the book, and begged me to read another chapter every time I put it down. That's how you know it's a winner!
Raising Men, Not Boys by Mike Fabarez - I am very picky about the parenting books I read and recommend. I don't like many modern parenting books, because they seem to me to be an endless list of to-do's that leave me feeling like I'll never be an adequate parent. This book offered practical parenting suggestions, but in a way that was based upon biblical parenting principles. The book focused on the gospel and leading your kids to Christ, and then covered bigger concepts like a good work ethic, good money skills, discipline, etc. It wasn't so much about a list of things to do as about refocusing as a parent, and I appreciate that. I got a lot of good ideas from this book that don't feel burdensome, and I already have plans to implement some of it in the new year.
That's it for my December reads, and I'm already hard at work reading for January, so hopefully I'll have another good list to give you in a few weeks!
Did you read anything good in December?
This time last year, none of us knew how much of a roller coaster 2020 would be! Despite it being very stressful from a political and world events perspective, on a personal level there are still blessings to be found as I look back on it now. I have written one of these yearly recaps every year for the last 12 years, and I will continue because it is an exercise in gratitude. It's a way to count blessings that may not seem as obvious, because even in hard times, the Lord's grace to us is there when we look for it.
January was a relatively quiet month. We started out the year with a trip to Rocky Mountain National Park, and a horrid cold that last for 2-3 weeks for me and Derek (knowing what we know now...well, we wonder what that was, because we haven't gotten sick since). Then we settled back into our school routine. At this time I was attempting to take a step back from our co-op, because it was turning out to be harder on our family than I thought. We did squeeze in a trip to a local historical museum with one friend, and a hike with another, along with a date night for me and Derek! We saw 1917, which inspired me to start my World War One personal study project.
On The Blog: Why And How I Deleted Half My Facebook Friends
February
February started off with a flurry of snow days, including one storm that dropped over a foot of snow on us. In the middle of one of those storms, the girls went to a daddy/daughter event with our church, all bundled up in princess dresses and snow coats. We also had the first of many car problems that would plague us in 2020 - a new transmission was installed, though we are not even sure if the transmission was truly the problem. We also celebrated Wyatt's birthday, a very bittersweet one for me as I realized he is halfway through his childhood now. We made valentines to give to our cousins and friends, and spotted a tiny bit of greenery poking through the dirt in town. We enjoyed a family hike at a local state park. I also had a girl's night out with some friends, and we discussed the rumored virus. I remember saying I didn't think it would be that big of deal...hadn't we made it through several other varieties of flu - bird, swine, etc - just fine? Joke's on me I guess.
March
This month started out like every other March I ever remember - brown, muddy, a little boring. We got out and enjoyed the warm weather, and saw our friends one day at a McDonald's play place, were I was informed that if I didn't want to run out of toilet paper, I might want to grab some, because it was selling out. I was honestly shocked at this, very surprised at the level of panic. A few days later we went to a train museum with my sister, and the next day we snuck in a trip to the library and stocked up on books. Our co-op was cancelled for the week (little did we know it would end up being cancelled the rest of the school year). The day after that almost everything was shut down, including our church. We had the first "church at home" of what would end up being way more Sundays than I thought. As our opportunities to get out of the house dwindled more and more, we worked on letters for our family and friends, and I learned how to make whipped coffee. At the end of the month our governor issued stay-at-home orders, but I still went out for takeout scones in my car every Friday, and it was a much-needed outing. We also made it a point to go on hikes as much as we could for exercise and fresh air. People weren't meant to stay inside all the time.
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April
Finally in April I stopped obsessively checking the news for changes, and realized I just had to live my life. Derek started building a playhouse for the kids, and I continued with visits to our local coffee shop for takeout, found several fun projects for the kids, and enjoyed some unseasonably warm weather which we celebrated with going out for grocery-store popsicles - eaten in the car. Easter came and went, and it's the first Easter ever that we didn't start the day by going to church. The kids were especially disappointed that we couldn't do our usual sunrise service, but we did still enjoy an egg hunt at Grandma's house. We celebrated Clyde's birthday as he turned 6 years old! I usually try not to rush the summer vibes, but this month I did. In my mind, everything would be better in the summer. Later in the month I organized a photo scavenger hunt for the kids that we did from our car, as well as weekly family movie nights and Sunday school "parties" through Zoom. We all had cabin fever, but we tried to do little things to make the best of it.
On The Blog: Certainty
May
The weather started to warm up, and we enjoyed more days running around at parks and going on walks. Mother's Day ended up being a favorite for me - we went on a nature walk with Derek's mom, had a picnic lunch overlooking the mountains for me, and then visited my mom in the afternoon. We finished up the school year earlier than expected, thanks to having so many Saturdays at home with nothing to do but school. I had the kids pick out some books for summer, and we finished the school year with donuts. Derek installed a greenhouse on our porch and started growing various vegetables and flowers. At the end of May the beaches in Texas reopened, and we took a road trip to spend a week in Galveston. It was a perfect refresher for our family - I don't think I realized how stressed I was about all the pandemic stuff until we got away for a few days. Though it was an eventful trip, with a problem with our beach house and an ear/throat infection that required an urgent care visit for antibiotics, we mostly just enjoyed the water and pool and restaurants.
On The Blog: Cold Coffee And Sunshine, Recent Reads - Spring 2020
June
We got back from vacation at the start of June, and I determined we were going to have a good summer even if it wasn't totally "normal". But the parks opened, and our church reopened for in-person services, and just those two little things made a huge difference. I made a big summer to-do list that included hikes, playing in creeks, craft projects, and lots of summery food. We also planned an ocean-themed birthday party for the boys with our friends and family, after delaying it for several months! Derek and I got out for a date that involved mini golf and takeout, and we went fishing for my birthday. We celebrated Derek on Father's Day. And overall we just enjoyed the warmer weather and the break from school.
On The Blog: Shouts And Whispers, A Summer Fun To-Do List
July
We found some fireworks to watch on the 4th of July, which I was so grateful for since so many shows were cancelled. Then a week later, Derek surprised me with a weekend getaway to a Gaylord resort for our 12th anniversary! We enjoyed the night away and getting to lay by the hotel's pools without worrying about anybody not being able to swim. We also made the trek to our county fair, which included a free circus show and rodeo events. I was so proud of our little county for continuing with the fair, since so many counties had cancelled theirs. We had a couple hikes with friends and did more at-home summer activities like sidewalk paint, homemade play dough, and local sightseeing at historical sites and national monuments.
August
We started gearing up to restart the school year in August, but not before we sent off the summer with a little more fun - campfires (before wildfires got out of control and a ban was instituted), porch camping, and finally a trip to Arches National Park and Black Canyon Of The Gunnison! It was a beautiful trip, even though it was short. It was a trip that felt truly energizing instead of just stress-relieving, as our vacation in May had been. Derek finished up the summer with getting the roof on the kids playhouse, while we had our first day back to school. Wyatt started 4th grade, Gwen started 2nd, and Clyde started 1st.
On The Blog: Narrowing It Down - Tips For Picking Curriculum
September
We had some wild temperature swings in September, including a first snow! But overall it was a fairly mild month, and we spent time outside studying plants as we learned more about botany for our homeschool science. We also ended up taking a weekend trip to Nebraska for Derek's cousin's wedding. It was lovely, and I read quite a lot of my World War One book in the car. The kids started Awana at church, which gave them a regular outing, and gave Derek and me almost weekly date nights. At the end of the month we celebrated Clarice's 5th birthday!
On The Blog: How To Teach Young Kids About Elections - Resources, A Case For Choosing A Personal Study Project, My Favorite "Five Senses" Learning Resources
October
October always brings a lot of fall fun with it, and this year we managed to squeeze in a trip to a corn maze, and a fall hikes at the peak of color. I took our annual fall family pictures at my parent's house. Derek started gearing up for hunting season, and I started teaching the kids how to embroider (we're still working on it). We took a trip out to our friends' ranch and had a lovely visit with them, as always. I also flew out to Montana with my mom for my cousin's wedding - it was a whirlwind trip, but I'm so glad we went! At the end of the month we went target shooting, and I went deer hunting for the first time in about 8 years. I got one on the first morning, thanks to my great hunting guide (Derek)! We celebrated Georgiana's 3rd birthday at the end of October! We also did our little Reformation Day activities that have become a tradition for us.
On The Blog: The Art Of Coziness, A Worthy Way To Spend A Life, Three Years Of Bullet Journaling - How I Do It, Books That Help Me Find joy In The Small, Celebrating Reformation Day - More Resources, My Morning Routine (As A Homeschool Mom Of Five)
November
Derek spent several weekends hunting in November, so we didn't do too much at the beginning of the month. We voted on November 3rd, and then I spent the rest of the month obsessively reading the news and being stressed about the dubious election results. We visited with friends, kept plugging away at schoolwork, and just enjoyed time at home. On Thanksgiving we enjoyed seeing our family and thanking the Lord for getting us through a very unusual year. Then we cooked a second Thanksgiving dinner for our own little family, just because.
On The Blog: What's On My Christmas List
December
Even though this December was just as busy for us as any December is, it somehow still felt more relaxed. We enjoyed a trail of lights with my family, a Christmas party with my extended family, a Christmas party with our Sunday school class, a winter hike, and a trip to see my grandpa. Even though restaurants were targeted for closing indoor dining this month, we still went out to eat on the patio or in outdoor tents during our Awana date nights. The kids and I decorated a "night tree" with dried fruits and popcorn for the deer, and we read a lot of Christmas picture books to go along with school. We visited a train museum with friends on Christmas Eve eve, and it was so nice to have a field trip after having so few this year! We went stargazing in the mountains, the darkest place we could find, to see the "Christmas star", a connection of Jupiter and Saturn. We somehow managed to squeeze visits with both sides of our family in on Christmas Eve, and then we enjoyed a quite Christmas Day at home, opening presents, playing games, and watching movies. In the week between Christmas and New Year's I became aware of some invasive privacy policy changes to Instagram, and after a year of censorship and activism on the part of the big tech giants, I'd had enough. I prepared to say goodbye to Instagram and Facebook, probably for good. (You can find me on Parler and MeWe now!) We celebrated Derek and Gwen's birthday after Christmas, with my girl turning 8 years old! We finished off 2020 with a family movie night at home, which seemed an appropriate and comforting end to this crazy year.
On The Blog: Starting A Nature Study Journal - How And Why, Stars Write His Name, Is Instagram Necessary For Bloggers, Honoring God Through Social Media Use, The Year Without An Instagram
Even though last year was a rough year, I am so thankful for the way the Lord has carried us through, and the way He has blessed our family this year with time together and fresh perspectives on what really matters. I want to remember that as we head into 2021!
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